Ingrid and her review about SIS and Sharanam Retreat
My name is Ingrid, I am 53 years old, and I had a fantastic stay at Sharanam Retreat in northern Spain. I booked the Coaching & Yoga program for two weeks.
I'm at a stage in my life where I'm searching for direction. My children are growing up and need me less and less as a mother. I'm also experiencing symptoms of menopause, along with the hormonal fluctuations that can make me feel unstable. I felt a strong need to take some time to rediscover myself. Additionally, the weather was particularly bad during the time I was considering booking, which made everything seem more depressing, and that was the final push I needed to take action.
In the past, I have tried individual therapy sessions and Reiki, but I was curious to explore other ways to find myself again and seek answers to certain questions. It was quite an adventure for me to embark on such a journey, especially since it was my first time doing something like this. I initially looked for help at a travel agency, but they couldn’t assist me as they weren’t specialized enough. So, I took matters into my own hands and started searching online. That’s when I found the SIS Wellness Holidays website, where Neeltje promptly responded to my inquiry. I received quick, clear, honest, and reliable advice, which I greatly appreciated—especially since, being my first time, I wanted to be sure I was choosing the right place. And it certainly was the right place!
I can honestly say that I got exactly what I was hoping for. The sessions with Aleid were incredibly valuable. I feel like I’ve come full circle, and all in a relatively short amount of time! I gained more than enough insights, tools, and clarity to move forward. I truly felt that Aleid understood me, and she provided me with very concrete tips. Since I’ve been back, even my family has noticed a difference, giving me feedback that I’m approaching life differently and taking things less personally. That’s exactly what I wanted to achieve.
And then there’s Doby! Doby is truly one of a kind—so warm, sincere, and special. His care and attention are evident in the delicious, healthy meals he prepares every day, as well as in the fantastic massages and Reiki treatments, which add tremendous value to the experience.
Aleid and Doby’s place is simple but beautifully situated by a small river. The surroundings are incredibly peaceful, with stunning natural beauty (mountains, olive trees). Unfortunately, the river was dry during the summer, which was a bit disappointing as there weren’t any spots to cool off. A swimming pool would have been nice, but this was made up for by the fact that we drove to the sea several times, which was lovely!
Now, I’m trying to maintain the positive feeling I found at Sharanam Retreat, and I’m making an effort to do so. I get up a little earlier every day to start with a short meditation and some yoga exercises. During the retreat, I even made a drawing—despite not being able to draw at all—but I’ve hung it up at home as a nice memory of the retreat. Aleid also gave me some music recommendations, which were played during the retreat or in the car when we drove to the beach. I still play that music from time to time to recapture the same flow and mood I felt during the retreat. All these things help me keep that positive feeling alive.
This retreat was truly a gift to myself!
I would recommend it to any woman who finds herself in the same stage of life as I am. Women who feel the need to take a time-out. Many women say they would like to do something like this but never follow through. I say: don’t hesitate any longer—just do it! It’s so worth it. Taking the time to reflect on the past, work through it, give it a place, and learn how to move forward. That was my goal, and I achieved it!